April 6-April Blogging Challange
If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be and why?
I feel like as humans we are constantly critiquing ourselves. We are always looking for ways that we could improve, and there are so many areas of myself that I want to improve, but there are also so many ways that I've come along way from where I was. If I had to choose only one thing about myself to change it would probably be my super passive aggressive nature.
Ever since I was a child I've always avoided confrontation like witches avoid water. Like I don't know how exactly I became this way, but If something bothers me, I just much rather ignore it than to let the person know it. Which I guess is good in some cases but in most cases I think it's probably better to say what you need to say like John Mayer says.
I find that I've maybe been misunderstood for a large portion of my life because of this particular trait. I'm seriously envious of those people that just say how they feel when they feel it. I really don't enjoy making people angry. So I rather just keep it to myself.
The main reason I would choose this trait above all is because I feel like If I said what I wanted when I felt like it people would get a better understanding of who I am. I don't mind being misunderstood in a sense, but I would like to at-least be able to give people the chance to understand me, by sharing my side. We can agree to disagree even if the other person gets angry or upset.
I feel like as humans we are constantly critiquing ourselves. We are always looking for ways that we could improve, and there are so many areas of myself that I want to improve, but there are also so many ways that I've come along way from where I was. If I had to choose only one thing about myself to change it would probably be my super passive aggressive nature.
Ever since I was a child I've always avoided confrontation like witches avoid water. Like I don't know how exactly I became this way, but If something bothers me, I just much rather ignore it than to let the person know it. Which I guess is good in some cases but in most cases I think it's probably better to say what you need to say like John Mayer says.
I find that I've maybe been misunderstood for a large portion of my life because of this particular trait. I'm seriously envious of those people that just say how they feel when they feel it. I really don't enjoy making people angry. So I rather just keep it to myself.
The main reason I would choose this trait above all is because I feel like If I said what I wanted when I felt like it people would get a better understanding of who I am. I don't mind being misunderstood in a sense, but I would like to at-least be able to give people the chance to understand me, by sharing my side. We can agree to disagree even if the other person gets angry or upset.
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